I just don't understand this point of view. If you're against abortion, you should be doing everything you can to prevent unplanned and unwanted pregnancies. When you're working with populations (underprivileged teens) for whom "abstinence only" education is so far off the map it's ludicrous, this should include providing ways for girls under 18 to obtain the morning-after pill--if a teenage girl is having unprotected sex, her parents and her doctor have already failed her, and the way to prevent her from trying to have an abortion later is to ensure that she doesn't get pregnant with emergency contraception. It should also definitely include requiring emergency rooms to provide the morning-after pill, which law my governor just vetoed.
After teaching sex ed in a seventh grade classroom in Boston this year--and volunteering in a pediatrics clinic--there are so many cases where the message of the "right" just doesn't fit. The girl in our seventh grade classroom who "couldn't wait" to have her boyfriend's baby, so that she could move out of her abusive father's house. The fourteen year old whose boyfriend drugged her drink and slept with her. You can't tell me that telling these kids to stay abstinent is going to work. I think abortion is terrible--and the way to prevent it is to prevent the pregnancy in the first place.
July 26 2005, 19:06:59 UTC 6 years ago
I like people who legislate based on personal morality as opposed to utilitarian safety. </sarcasm>
July 26 2005, 19:50:55 UTC 6 years ago
July 26 2005, 21:39:07 UTC 6 years ago
So now, an white woman is going to get raped and not have access to a "plan B" pill, get pregnant, and make a civil case with the state because she couldn't get an emergency contraceptive. So after wasting taxpayer dollars on a case like this, the legislation will be revised and passed, but not before a couple of additional kickback amendments are added to it.
... That's the way it normally works at least. Or have I misunderstood everything that I've learned about the governement up to this point ? ;-)
July 27 2005, 13:08:34 UTC 6 years ago
July 27 2005, 21:49:57 UTC 6 years ago
July 26 2005, 21:38:09 UTC 6 years ago
But really, abstinence is not a solution for everyone. I think it should be taught as an option, but something has to be done for those that don't choose it. I would guess that most pregnant teens don't really want to be pregnant. It seems like we could do something to help them out with that.
I heard a story recently about a young teen girl in the hospital to give birth. She didn't know how the baby was supposed to get out of her. Of course, when the doctor told her, she burst into tears. I heard that from someone else, but I assume it's mostly accurate. It's hard to keep such young people educated when it keeps becoming a problem at younger and younger ages.
July 27 2005, 13:16:42 UTC 6 years ago
That is a tragic story. Like the girl I saw in the peds clinic who had been date-raped...she didn't even know what had happened, she came in because she got an STD from the guy. I also met an abortion provider at a talk at school who said she had had a twelve year old girl come in. Again, at that point, the abortion isn't the problem--it's the educators and parents who have failed that little girl.
July 27 2005, 07:07:53 UTC 6 years ago
July 27 2005, 13:25:37 UTC 6 years ago
July 27 2005, 22:02:47 UTC 6 years ago
All this discussion, debate and strife about abortion is misfocused. It's like throwing water out of a sinking boat while ignoring the fact that the hole in the hull needs to be patched. Too often we focus on whether people are happy, or healthy, or well-off. We attempt to prevent pain and suffering, but these are unavoidable. Modern medicine seeks to extend life without improving quality of life. As a health-obsessed country, we are terribly unhealthy. Death and old age are inevitable. We simply are trying to disillusion ourselves. Movie stars today hold up impossible standards of beauty, not only in body image but in age appearance. Instead of trying to control things we can't even begin to grasp, we should focus on trying to be better people ourselves, and fostering environments in which other people can better themselves. Not in a material way, but in a spiritual way. After all, the only thing Everyman carries with him are Good Deeds.